Men, do you really know how to keep a woman happy? Do you need advice on relationships?
The number one tip I give men for advice on relationships is to be yourself. There are too many men out there that don’t feel rich enough, big enough or good enough to get a beautiful, sexy, intelligent woman, so they try to be something they are not. This is a big mistake when it comes to women. A man that is sure of his self, confident and knows what he wants is what attracts women. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys can have some of the hottest girls? It all has to do with confidence. Confidence is more attractive to women than physical looks.
This is just one of the powerful bit of advice on relationships, you can find in T.W. Jackson’s The Magic of Making Up.
Then, we move on to the little things. Men seem to think that it takes grand gestures to keep their women happy, when it is the little things that women adore more. Such as filling her car up with gas when its cold out side or leaving a post-it that says how much you care about her in the book she is reading, giving her a foot massage after a long day at work. It is the little things that add up to a long relationship.
The best advice on relationships is easy if you take a little time to think about her needs. Just appreciate her and never take her for granted. Always let her know how much you value her.
And guys don’t stare at other women. You can undermine her trust for you if she catches you looking at other women. It not her fault, its part of their D.N.A., evolution has designed them to find the best possible suitor for them and their children. If she perceives you as comparing her to every woman that walks by she is naturally going to be protective and its going to come across as being jealous. So try not to look so much especially if she is around.
A good sense of humor will get you a long way with most any woman. Most men would list looks as being important to their attraction in women, where as women its a good sense of humor. Keep her laughing, keep her happy.
If you want it to last this next bit of advice on relationships will help you stand the test of time. Share common interests, although it is helpful if you met because of a hobby, taking an interest in a true passion of hers will really show how much you care about her. If it means joining a local theater group than you find a way to be apart of it. This will show how much you appreciate her and that are truly are one in a million.
Now That You Got Her, How Do You Keep Her?
Now that you got the girl, you need to keep her. Too many men and women for that matter, get a little sloppy once they have landed their mate. Although looks aren’t as important to women as they are to men, women still would like to try to look good. That means the little things again. Shave on the week days, keep up on the latest styles for men, just don’t get sloppy. You can lose her just as fast as you landed her.
Now I am going to share with you, what my grandmother shared with me when it comes to advice on relationships. My grandma used to tell me,” Win her mother over, and you can have your way with the daughter.” Of course, this was said with a little tong-n-cheek but, it is important that you fit in with her family and friends. So, try to get along with friends and impress her parents. A woman takes stock in what her family and friends have too say about her relationship choices. Try to fit in.
One last piece of advise on relationships is to be open to try new things. At the beginning, everything is new and exciting. From the places you take her on dates to the way you hold her hand. It is easy to have these things become routine. Prevent your relationship from falling into a rut, make sure you shake things up once in awhile. Do something new, try a new restaurant, go dancing instead of a movie. You get the picture. All of these things will go a long way in keeping your relationship thriving and healthy.
Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn’t pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson called “The Magic Of Making Up”. After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.
You might want to check out “The Magic of Making Up” yourself. It’s a step-by-step guide to rekindling the love you once had.
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Matt